Howdy,
Being a 4.1 owner myself the only thing that is different between the 4.1 and the 3.8 as far as I know is the block and pistons. Both for roughly the same reasons... the bigger 3.965" instead of the 3.800" bore. The rods are identical, so is the crank. The heads are probably early turbo 8293's instead of the later 8445 though I think some of the 84 4.1's got 8445's, mine didn't though. The main differences in the block are pretty well spelled out in a post I started about a month ago, basically the main weak points are thinner deck surfaces, thinner main webs, and less lifter valley cross braceing. On your 83 block will probably have less reinforcing ribs on the back just above the bellhousing as well. Do the search if you want to see a full blown debate over the power handling capabilities of the 4.1.
Just my $.01, my advise ain't worth anymore,