OK I wasn't getting Hi blower speed on the fan so I replaced the relay and Viola! hi speed works. But shouldn't there be a wider range of speeds on the fan ? 1,2 3 sounds like its putting out about the same fan speed. 
EDIT- 1 is low 2 is med. 3 is low.could it be the resistors and where are they located.
EDIT- 1 is low 2 is med. 3 is low.could it be the resistors and where are they located.