Mine hit when installed. They were new and my car had similar miles to yours (75K).
Got the same song regarding repositioning the motor mounts, settling the engine.... and the added ones "Was your car in an accident?" and "How many shims are present on the crontrol arm shaft" Bla Bla Bla.
Bottom line, they didn't fit my car. Always felt I must have been the "Odd Man Out", however, I didn't have the benifit of the web and this site for "Second Opinions". I'm beginning to believe that they are just not the best fitting systems out there.
Very dissapointing when you consider how much they cost! I wish I had just sent them back... nothing but problems after I managed to wedge them and the matching poor fitting cat-back/mufflers/and down pipe in. All ATR items. The only vendor I knew about 7 or so years ago which I had trusted up to that point.
When they cracked (I'll admit, they lasted longer than I would have thought!) I put some Postons on and put an end to that problem. They seem pretty strong, but they just didn't fit right.