What do you mean you can "feal" performance fall off??? Have you actually got time slips to back up that claim?? Because my experience has shown me that locking the torque converrter in third gear always yields much better mph (at least 2-4) and never detracts from ET. Even helps ET in ever case.
Or are you just going be seat of the pants guesses? Because it does feel like it may be getting slowed, but it isn't.
BTW, I lock mine manuallly, about 1-2 seconds after the 2-3 shift. That was when I was using a switch. I have the chip lock it now, and have that set to occur about 85mph.