hard start
Looks like your fuel pump relay is open. I don't know why on cold start you have to build up that much oil pressure before start, as the stock oil pressure switch is calibrated at a few psi to close.Coincidence?
Of course, with all those mods, who knows? Get a fuel pressure gauge, if not already installed, and start with the pressure diagnostics, go on from there. A little verification may save you from a lot of second guessing. Keep us informed.