Its not the boost solenoid. Your boost solenoid seems to be working fine. A new boost solenoid will do exacly what that one is doing. Save your money.
Check one thing: the orifice size in the "Y" hose "Y". It should be .050" If it is smaller than this (some GM replacement "Y" hoses have an orifice that measures .027") the call can overboost to around 18 psi. If you still have the factory original "Y" somewhere, use that one with new hoses. The older the "Y" is the greater chance it is the proper size.
If you have the proper orifice size and you still get too much boost, lengthen the wastegate rod.