Dating Question

[87chrisss]

1st of all this topic has nothing to do with me but it is a on going topic @ my job want to hear some opinions from this side...

What would you do if this situation would happen to you?


you meet a girl your dating your falling for her etc.. great sex great time smile's etcc..the typical first 3months "show" what i mean by that is most couples put on a mask and you really dont see the real person till after 3months of dating... theyre are some exceptions but most people act perfect for the first couple dates etc... so let's say everything good but with all the social networking someone a friend or family member spots and recognizes the girl your dating?? And it so happens she was a bit of a whore some time before not prostitute hoeing but like she would sleep around and was a party animal not an angel..Would you stop dating her? Keep on dating her? Would you feel different toward her...????
ps..just because you paint a car doesnt mean the miles change....** so answer wisely also people change all the time sometimes for good and sometimes for worse let me know What You Would Do




ps..to the women on this site i apologize i mean no harm or disrespect towards women by this topic or any chosen words but it is an ongoing male conversation happens all the time and im just looking for a POV.. on this site.. Women feel free to share your POV on the topic also...

 

[Gary Wells]

A "sleep-around in previous years" that faithful to you beats a virgin that's not.

 

[87BLKGN]

Id say, the person dating would have to look at himself. Is he a perfect angel? I doubt it. Take a step back and look at her from both sides, then look at himself from both sides. Was he a party animal growing up, he get high, maybe have a few one night stands, blah blah blah. Point i'm getting at is look at himself in the mirror first before calling her out a whore. Another point is if this is something thats bothering him now, it maybe best to let her go, it will probably bother him throughout the whole relationship. JMO

 

[87chrisss]

87blkgn your response is the same thing that happens @ work..lol.. the guys try to give opinions on what other people should do that are in that situation... but the trick question is WHAT WOULD YOU DO .. if it were in your given hand.. would it be your same answer or would it differ?

 

[daves87gn]

all depends on what kind of man you are, if your secure in who your are than her past shouldn't bother you. if she was single and like to party and get around good for her, if she was in a relationship and like to party and get around (cheat) PASS, that never changes. I had a relationship with a girl that was popular when she was younger, we had a great time, also had one with what i thought was a good girl till i found out she was cheating on her boy friend with me, then later i found out i wasnt the only one she had on the side.

but if the fact that she was popular bothers him, tell him to pass because the feeling of insecurity will eat at him, and will ruin the relationship, on the other had the sex is probably great because popular girl know things that good girls dont :biggrin:

 

[1BADTT]

LOL, since your looking to find out what others would do here it goes...If I was looking for someone to marry, HELL NO! For the sex HELL YES! LOL!!! The less mileage the better (NOS women are hard to come by these days).

 

[87chrisss]

if it were me i think i would keep her as a friend not get too involved.......... but love stinks so knowing me and my luck i probably would fall for the alley cat.. "damn" . bitch been everywhere lol...oh well..

 

[TURBOPOWERED68]

ignorance is bliss

 

[Phoneguy]

Like was mentioned before, if she was out having a good time and was not in a committed relationship then good for her. If she was in fact cheating on someone while having a good time then it is different. We have all done things that we are not proud of and we all have a "past". I guess it is in our nature to be guarded but just because someone acted a certain way while single doesn't mean they are that way in a relationship. People put WAY to much info on these social networking sites...We just turned a girl away for a job because of what we found on Facebook.

Bryan

 

[salvageV6]

She's gonna dump you in a few months so don't think out the situation, pork it out.

Assuming her track record is as described.

 

[87chrisss]

i have no face book nor twitter no nothing!!!! only a TB membershipp Catch me if you can!

 

[Phoneguy]

i have no face book nor twitter no nothing!!!! only a TB membershipp Catch me if you can!

same here...

Bryan

 

[87granny]

Treat her like a farm animal and then get rid of her

 

[SCOOBY DOO]

The past is just that...the past. If the two of us got along great...and honestly cared for each other...that's all that would matter to me.

 

[TurboTGuy]

If she is portraying herself as always being an angel, then her credibilty is shot. If she is honest about it when asked, then it shouldn't bother the guy, unless some kind of "cooties" are involved..... then, well, yuck.

I've seen plenty of guys trash talk a girl to other guys just to keep the others from sniffing around her.

We've all done things we regret. If she's a good fit in your life, why fret over it? Just go with it.

 

[TurboTGuy]

treat her like a farm animal and then get rid of her

bwaaaahahahahaha!

 

[grey racer]

All you guys are great.... Treat her like a farm animal....that's classic !!!

 

[BandAid]

Womens "masks" only and i repeat only come off after you have been married for about a yr,,the devil comes out.....whos got balls to prove me wrong...:wink:

 

[87chrisss]

Womens "masks" only and i repeat only come off after you have been married for about a yr,,the devil comes out.....whos got balls to prove me wrong...:wink:

lol when i was about 10 or 12 my old man sat me down time to have a talk i thought it was about the sex or something i dunno?? he told me dont you ever get married lol..!!!! he said times have changed it wasn't like the 50's and 60's when my grandparents stayed together till death to us part....times have really changed the social networking and technology is causing the world to accept raunchy pictures sexy dresses etc.. back in the 60's 70's and 80's no one saw that or could just easily send you a pm to tell someone's girlfriend/fiance they look hot in that dress everything leads to temptation nowadays, since mid 90's and into the 2k's porn really grew on the internet...so did dating sites... bet the statistics on divorce skyrocketed!! times have changed thats all thats to it... accept it...and also google the stats on cheating married couples close to 75 to 80% cheat and they admit its what keeps their marriage going?? dont see how?

 

[Phoneguy]

Womens "masks" only and i repeat only come off after you have been married for about a yr,,the devil comes out.....whos got balls to prove me wrong...:wink:

You have been shopping in the wrong places...LOL
My 25th anniversary is this Saturday and my wife is a blast !

Bryan