I have to agree with Norbs. It's not for the average Joe. I'm a retired electrical engineer who has done mostly mechanical engineering over a 34 year career. I've also built a dozen different bracket racing engines for my Corvette over a 25 year period. With that background and experience, I'm not average Joe. However, I've been struggling with my GEN7 for several years now. I've received some helpful advice on this forum - and most of it came from Norbs. For a guy that just wants "instant soup", Norbs MAF based "recipe" with the components that he lays out is probably the best way to get your street/strip car running well quickly. If you have a deeper engineering curiosity like I do and don't mind putting about as much study into it as getting a Phd, then go GEN7.
Regardless of which way you go, I recommend that you read Greg Banish's books: "Designing and Tuning High Performance Fuel Injection Systems" and "Engine Management Advanced Tuning". They lay out the basics of both MAP and MAF based systems. As you found out when trying to use the Accel "estimator", Accel doesn't give you anywhere close to everything that you need to know.
The GEN7 is not hard to set up for an all out race car that only sees WOT, but things like part throttle operation, fuel economy and idle quality take a lot more time to figure out.