The head "lifting" is a combination to deformation of the head and block mating surfaces, and of course it is due to the enormous cylinder pressure from high boost and RPM.
Detonation may or may not play a part in this deformation, but it will certainly help it along.
When a large "hole" is blown in a head gasket, you can be assured that pre-ignition was present, and this can also be triggered by detonation?
Years ago when we first installed alum heads ,we found a noticeable increase in boost was possible, and still keep the head gaskets intact.
This was attributed to 2 factors, one was the added mass and structure of the alum head was a lot more resistant to deformation.
The second factor is the alum dissipates heat better than cast iron, so detonation and pre-ignition is less likely.
On a 14 bolt head, very seldom does a head gasket give away, but with elevated cylinder pressures, and mis-fire or pre-ignition, it must go somewhere, and a valve or piston will then become the victim.
Having seen lots of engine damage where knock retard, detonation, was never seen, that llustrates pre-ignition happens so fast it is not recorded?
Just because I have replaced about 2000 head gaskets on turbo Buicks over the past years does not make me an "expert" of what is going on in the combustion chamber, so this is just my opinion!