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Windows XP does not contain the Net-BEUI protocol. Instead, you will install NWLink IPX/SPX/NetBIOS compatible transport protocolin your XP computer.
Older Windows 9x systems may not be able to use TCP/IP to communicate with Windows XP. For this reason, we recommend that you install IPX/SPX in your Windows 9x system as well as TCP/IP, and enableNet-BIOS over IPX/SPX.
1. Set Up Your Windows 9x Guest Computer
In Network Properties, Install the IPX/SPX protocol.
Double-click IPX/SPX compatible protocol – check In Network Properties, Install the IPX/SPX protocol.
Double-Click IPX/SPX compatible protocol – check I want to enable Net-BIOS over IPX/SPX – Click OK.
Restart your computer when prompted.
Go to Start/Programs/Accessories/ (Communications/) Direct Cable Connection.
When DCC opens, select Guest – Click Next.
Select Parallel cable on LPT1 – Click Next.
Click Finish to start DCC, and your Windows 9x computer will attempt to connect. If your Host computer is not set up, Click Close – Click OK.
Restart your computer when prompted.
Go to Start/Programs/Accessories/ (Communications/) Direct Cable Connection.
When DCC opens, select Guest – Click Next.
Select Parallel cable on LPT1 – Click Next.
Click Finish to start DCC, and your Windows 9x computer will attempt to connect. If your Host computer is not set up, Click Close.
2. In Windows XP, Set Up A New Incoming Connection
Go to Start/Connect to…/Show all connections.
In Network Tasks, click on Create a new connection - Click Next.
Select Set up an advanced connection - Click Next.
Select Connect directly to another computer - Click Next.
Choose Host - Click Next.
Select Direct Parallel (LPT1) - Click Next.
Add the name of the Windows 9X Guest computer.
If the name of your 9x Guest computer is there, make sure the box next to it is checked.
If the name of your 9x Guest computer is not in the list of Users, Click Add, type the computer name of your Windows 9x Guest computer in the User Name text box. Do not enter a password. Click OK – Click Next.
Click Finish. Your new Incoming Connection will appear in the Network Connections window.
3. Check your Windows XP Host connection settings
Right-Click on Incoming Connection - Select Properties.
Click Users. Verify that Windows 9x guest computer is listed.
At the bottom of the Users screen - Check Always allow directly connected devices such as palmtop computers to connect without providing a password.
Click on Networking. If NWLink IPX/SPX/NetBIOS compatible transport protocol is not already listed:
a.Click Install – Click Protocol – Click Add.
b.Click NWLink IPX/SPX/NetBIOS Compatible Transport Protocol – Click OK.
c.Make sure all protocols and services are checked (Client for Microsoft Networks shows a grayed-out checkbox, this is normal). Click OK to close Incoming Connection Properties.
4. Set Up Sharing For The Drive You Want To Share (XP Host)
Windows XP gives you many options for sharing your resources. For more information on XP Sharing and Security, go to Start/Help and Search for sharing.
Open My Computer. Right-click on a drive or Browse to a folder you want to share and select Sharing and Security. If you choose to share a drive, you will receive a warning. Click on the link provided to proceed.
In the Network sharing and security frame – Check Share this folder on the Network . If you are sharing a drive, the share name will show as the drive letter.
Allow network users to change my files is checked by default. This selection allows Full Control (allows files to be written to the shared drive) access to files. If you want Read Only access, clear this checkbox.
Click OK.
5. Run Direct Cable Connection
You do not need to turn on your Incoming Connection.
At the Guest computer go to Start/Programs/ Accessories/(Communications/)Direct Cable Connection – Click Connect.
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Your Windows XP computer will respond once the Guest connects. A two computer icon will appear in the task bar close to the clock. Once the connection is made the screens in the icon will blink on and off - blue and black
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6. Map a drive to the Host computer
Hope this helps.
Give me the name and model of the network card and I will see if I can find something on it too.