A car moves by friction. No friction, no movement. That's why my car is having trouble moving down the driveway this morning. There is ice all over the driveway; the car doesn't have the required friction to move.
A jet or prop driven craft is different. It does not move by friction, it moves by air pressure and prop lift. That means it can move on my driveway, ice and all.
Because of this one simple fact, a plane and a car will react differently on the conveyor as well. If the car is set to move 40mph north and the conveyor is moving 40mph south, the car will remain motionless relative to the ground, and 40mph relative to the conveyor.
If a winged aircraft (jet or prop, it doesn't matter) were on the same conveyor, it would not behave the same way. If the aircraft is moving at an airspeed of 40mph north and the conveyor is moving 40mph south, the airplane will still go 40mph north, and the wheels will have a surface speed of 80mph.
The difference is in what they are pushing against. The car is pushing against the conveyor; the airplane is pushing against the air. The two will move relative to what they push, not what they are resting on.
To fully understand this, you have to take Newton's Third Law, and fully understand it. For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction.
The car is acting against the conveyor, so it must move in relation to the conveyor. Movement of the air is irrelevant.
The aircraft is acting against the air, so it must move in relation to the air. Movement of the conveyor is irrelevant.