I already did that. I was stock. Pulled a bolt, (forgot which side) and broke pass side mount in half. Went to all new ES hardware, and atr's 1&3/8ths front bar (the rear is already an atr 1&3/8ths) broke the pass side mount bracket in the exact same spot. at the bend. yanked it all, and rolled for a while with no front sway. car rode like a 77 cadillac with 500,000 miles on stock suspension. (ie like total crap). Put a stock bar back on, with brand new ES hardware again 3 days ago, and pulled the drivers side bolt out of the frame at the cruise yesterday.
I already know about the larger bolts having larger heads, and them not fitting, cuz of the radius there. I'm already pushing that limit with one of them, as the original bolt that pulled out on me, is now a slight bit bigger, as I had to re-tap that old hole to something bigger, as the original bolt will just slide up in there like a hotdog in a hallway. But luckily, there's still just enough room there to get my socket head on the bolt. Yesterday a stock bolt pulled. (looks sorta like an aftermarket header bolt)
This is going to continue, I already know this. I know, cuz A. None of my 3 bars ever just 'dropped' in. They all needed some sort of fanagaling/massaging. I don't know why, as everything's stock on my front end, and B, when I was re-tapping that last hole, it went in really easy. It's super soft steel for sure. I built the ladder/frame assembly for the 1999/2000 Jeep Grand Cherokees, and that steel was just plain old stamped mild steel as well. I'm assuming ours is too.

So I'm just going to reinforce the entire area with a little "A team" type work.
I guess I'm here just to find out if anyone else has had this problem, and what they did to rectify it. Though, now that I think about it, somethings REALLY eating away at me..... Bodyshop guys, chime in at any time. While sitting and staring at my car yesterday at the cruise, I noticed that where the rocker panel meets the front fender on the drivers side, there's a dam near half inch gap there, and it seems to have been filled with some sort of filler before its repaint, as it's sorta cracked now, revealing the gap. (very unnoticable, but I'm very anal, so I look harder than the average person)
Whereas the passenger side rocker, meets its front fender with a clean, even, quarter inch gap. Unlike the drivers side. Hmmm messed up, uneven gap on one side, and no sway bar just drops in anymore... Is this the reason for the repaint? Is this frame bent? (ie was this car smacked pretty good in the drivers side front quarter, and repainted and sold?)