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Tough Life decision...... What to do?

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DCVING 6

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I need some advice on what could be a life changing decision.

I've suspected for some time now that my girlfriend has been having an affair. The usual signs. Phone rings, I answer, someone hangs up. She started going out 'with the girls' a lot recently although when I ask which girls it is always "Just some friends from work, you don't know them". I always look out for her taxi coming home but she always walks down the drive although I can hear a car setting off. As if she has got out of the car round the corner. Why? Is it not a taxi? I once picked her mobile up just to see what time it was and she went beserk and screamed that I should never touch her phone again and why was I checking up on her.

Anyway, I have never approached the subject with my g/f. I think deep down I just didn't want to know the truth but last night she went out again and I decided to check on her. I decided I was going to hide behind my car which would give me a view of the whole street so I could see which car she gets out of. It was whilst crouched behind my car that I noticed rust around my rear wheel arch.

Should I take it into a body repair shop or should I buy some stuff from the local auto shop and try to repair it myself?
 
Rust is a sure sign the car has been driving around behind your back... and without protection. The rust can be controlled, but never cured. It will just be a matter of time before the next outbreak. Sorry, man... sometimes life sucks. I'd look for a new car.
 
LOL thats funny as hell, the rust can be controller by using Porr 15, now i dont know about your girlfriend that a total different issue, if she is cheating she is bored with you or not getting what she wants out of the relationship, just look for another girl, she obviously does not appreciate what she has..
 
I thought it might be a little too early in the morning for a good joke. I borrowed this from another board.


:D
 
haha, reminded me of my life for a little bit.

if the car is good shape otherwise then the body is probably worth saving. the rust just has to be cut out and replaced with a new piece of metal. its not too big of a deal for someone that knows what there doing.
 
Situation like this are really hard to figure out, ya, you can patch things up, but will they ever be as good as new?.
Sometimes, it's just better to cut your loses, set her lose, and find one with a better body. I know some will say that's just being shallow, but hey, nowadays, it seems to be just the thing to do. But, that's not to say some plastic surgery wouldn't cover up a mutlitude of blemishes.

But then again, some relationships would be impossible to duplicate.

HTH
 
you really think rust is only in one spot ???? that would be like a GF who only cheated once :p wellll the one time she got caught of course :eek:
 
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