If the seals don't stay on the guide there's a problem. They have a little clamp on them that holds them on the guide. Replace them,nothing fancy parts store Fel Pro's are good.
Now if the problem persits..most likey the problem is the exhaust guide. Had this problem on TurboPetes GN. I have built several motors with the stock stuff in the heads. With good luck. His motor smoked at start up only. Everthing was in spec.
The solution was to remove the heads,have the machine shop cut down the exhaust guides and install positive seals on the exhaust. You also have to change the valves to a TTA style exhaust valve. Problem solved.
The factory design was the issue. I have cars that don't smoke that are set up the stock way,but............next they come apart I will change them.