Believe it or not, my car has never been to the track. Ahhh, one day.
Anyway, yes, there is an enormous amount of information when first learning about these cars. It is overwhelming in a way isn't it? Thing is, that feeling NEVER goes away. That's why you hear some of us say from time to time, "Welcome to the dark side." It sounds cheesy, but there's a lot of meaning behind that statement. Take your time and slow down on the buying of go fast parts. You need to learn about what you already have and how they work. I don't think you are ready for alky...yet. You need to get familiar with the car and the tuning process before throwing the added complication of alky into the mix.
There is a general consensus that the chips from Full Throttle (Extender/Commander) and TurboTweak chips are the best out there. You can't go wrong with TurboTweak chips.
For starters, I recommend you that you get a chip from either of the two aforementioned vendors (I'm biased toward TurboTweak though) and make sure the chip is matched to those injectors. That is VERY important. Go ahead and install the injectors if you are able. TurboTweak has a forum that you should join and ask specific chip questions over there. Eric is a one-man show at TurboTweak and is very helpful is getting you set up properly.
Also, I wouldn't touch your turbo. A bigger isn't going to help you
at all until you are running 20+ pounds of boost.
Ask around, you may actually have some people close to you. You'd be surprised at some of the locations of TRs.
One last thing: Update your signature so we can help in the future with mods/questions without having to ask redundant questions. Take your time. We'll learn ya. There's some smart fellers on here