I should explain how my front seal setup is first. I'm using a stock cover that has been highly modified. The oil pump area has been removed (running dry sump), and the water pump area has been replaced with an access cover for cam timing changes without having to disturb the timing cover and oil pan gaskets. The front seal mounting has been replaced with a seal retainer that is removeable from the front. The seal retainer bolts to the timing cover. Remove the retainer and the seal is replaced from the rear side of the retainer. The seal can't pop out going forward, and the timing cover won't allow the seal to pop out going rearward unless the retainer is removed from the timing cover.
The modification to the timing cover that allowed for a mounting plate for the seal retainer has brought the oil slinger very close to this mounting plate. Maybe .020" clearance. The hole in this same mounting plate is fairly tight around the damper hub snout that the seal rides on. On the outside of this hole in the seal retainer mounting boss is the front seal retainer. Alignment of the seal is perfect. I made sure of that. Any oil in the timing cover has to get around the slinger that is very close to the new mounting boss, and then has to go between the boss and the damper hub before any oil can get to the seal. I'm thinking I may have too many walls in the way keeping oil away from the seal. Maybe if I remove the slinger and just keep the clearance between the damper hub and mounting boss hole. Or maybe open the hole up a bit. I'm starting to think that the front seal has to get some oil.
I do pack the seal with brake lube during install, but inspection later shows that the grease has been sucked into the engine. I run a vacuum pump along with the drysump, with an open breather.
I have a pressurized orifice shooting oil onto the idler bearing of the gear drive timing set, so I'm not worried about the front not getting enough oiling.
If no one knows of a trick seal to use for this location, I think I'll just remove the slinger and leave the hole in the timing cover alone and see how things turn out. If it still wears, I'll just start opening the hole little by little to allow more oil to the front seal.