I had this exact same problem with my headers. When you ask people if they can do it they look at you like you're speaking Chinese. I ended up finding a machine shop that ports cylinder heads that did both headers for me for $40. I know he used a belt sander, and also said he pounded them straight. I bought header gaskets. And never used them, but I did use copper rtv. This was on a TTA , so after market headers are not available. My passenger side flange is about a 1/4" thick now. Grrr! Somebody machined them previously before I owned the car