Brett Haynes
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thats what im trying to do man
OMG Nooooo!!!!!
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turbot2496
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Well I'm extremely happy to hear you got her on your insurance. That will help alot. Good luck Brett and I hope it works out for ya. I guess next time you'll have to double bag that sucker. 
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Bret,
take some advice these guys have given you. It sounds like good advice, but don't let them get to you if you're happy and you're taking care of business. I work with a lot of college educated people that are 28-35 and they are single and still living at home because they can't afford to buy a house down here. Minimum for a dinky condo or house is over $200k. So, if you can afford the house, car and take care of your family all while being happy, then you are doing a hell of a job. Stay at home with the parents and save some money while you can. Last thing you want to do is move in with the girlfriend and kid too soon and be miserable while you try to get by if you can stay an extra month or two at the parents and be a lot better set up financially.
take some advice these guys have given you. It sounds like good advice, but don't let them get to you if you're happy and you're taking care of business. I work with a lot of college educated people that are 28-35 and they are single and still living at home because they can't afford to buy a house down here. Minimum for a dinky condo or house is over $200k. So, if you can afford the house, car and take care of your family all while being happy, then you are doing a hell of a job. Stay at home with the parents and save some money while you can. Last thing you want to do is move in with the girlfriend and kid too soon and be miserable while you try to get by if you can stay an extra month or two at the parents and be a lot better set up financially.
jhef83 said:
I haven't read all of the posts, but here is my take on it: Just because he got your daughter pregnant, why do you have to give him a place to live? If he wants to help when the baby comes, then tell him to get a job and supply money. If when the baby comes, he has a steady job, and he is needed there, and he looks like he will be helpful, then you can consider it. There is no reason to let him in now. If he does start to stay there, then lay down the law. No job. No room. Just think, if you let him in, that could be an invitation to create baby number 2.
