How do the trans cross member pads fit into frame?

Can't get the isolation pads/mounts to fit in the " pocket"of the frame
It looks like:
The thick, threaded pad goes in the pocket thread-side down
(pic is reversed)

then the cross-member
then thin rubber pad
But i cant get the thick pad to fit in pocket!?!
I'm dumb-assin' it at this point
TIA
D

Can't get the isolation pads/mounts to fit in the " pocket"of the frame

It looks like:
The thick, threaded pad goes in the pocket thread-side down
(pic is reversed)

then the cross-member
then thin rubber pad
But i cant get the thick pad to fit in pocket!?!
I'm dumb-assin' it at this point

TIA
D
