You are mis-interpreting my snark.
I don't give a flying monkey's rump what diameter wheels you're running. It doesn't matter. My snark was aimed at the apparent puzzlement regarding interference of two pieces. Your problem has nothing to do with wheel diameter. It's about wheel/tire package width, toe setting, and how much caster you're running. Did you measure before you bought the wheels? Every single reputable wheel manufacturer has a worksheet. You take the measurements, fill out the sheet, and send it to the wheel company. They'll check it and send you wheels that will fit.
You're right, anything can work given certain elements. Money is one. The other is a basic understanding of geometry and how to use a ruler. Get your ruler out, figure out how much clearance you actually have, and then start addressing the problem. You can replace the swaybar with a narrower setup. You can modify the stops on the lower arms to limit steering angle so they don't hit. You can use narrower wheels. You can run less caster.
If you ask for help around here, you will get it. And you're getting hit here. But you're going to have to develop some thicker skin. And you're going to have to get over not getting the answer you wanted or expected. Your profile says you're 35. You should know that by now.