Ive been reading these divorce threads and man, I dont want to end up in that situation.
Thing is, I'm 25, coming up on 26 and call me a fag or whatever but I find myself longing for companionship, a girl to come home to and all that mess.
I have an ex who is 28 and she was itching to get married to me, not for dependency or anything she was finishing up her masters, we had a good thing while it lasted but it moved way too fast I guess and burnt itself out. Anyhow Ive been thinking about her often and at the time I thought we werent compatible but since then ive seen other girls and it seems like the more I date the less I know what I want.
I used to have this idealized picture of what I wanted and now I have less and less of that as days go on I think I want a little of this a little of that but its like a bunch of checks and balances, something in one area makes up for another.
So how do you know which is The One.. or is there no such thing and you just get marred to one of The Ones that seems to be allright and hope for the best??
Thing is, I'm 25, coming up on 26 and call me a fag or whatever but I find myself longing for companionship, a girl to come home to and all that mess.
I have an ex who is 28 and she was itching to get married to me, not for dependency or anything she was finishing up her masters, we had a good thing while it lasted but it moved way too fast I guess and burnt itself out. Anyhow Ive been thinking about her often and at the time I thought we werent compatible but since then ive seen other girls and it seems like the more I date the less I know what I want.
I used to have this idealized picture of what I wanted and now I have less and less of that as days go on I think I want a little of this a little of that but its like a bunch of checks and balances, something in one area makes up for another.
So how do you know which is The One.. or is there no such thing and you just get marred to one of The Ones that seems to be allright and hope for the best??