This may seem harsh, but when you place a bid on ebay it is a binding contract!!!! You as the buyer have looked at the auction, if you did not agree with anything in the auction, payment or shipping , do not bid!!! Now get off your ass and pay this guy what you owe him!! He has had to pay ebay to list the item, and if you don't pay he has to wait a couple weeks to get his final value fee back, after he follows ebays guidelines for this process....Now I guess I better go add you to my list of people to not accept bids from!!!