Sounds like a smart lady, that or she is gonna get you offed, j/k.
Whatever you do, don't go with a whole life policy. They are pure BS, go with a term policy. They can make a whole life policy sound like the greatest thing since sliced bread, accumulating millions of dollars on paper, but the return on it is usually a lot less than 5% from what I have seen, plus has a very limited payout the first few years. Whatever policy you go with, read the fine print. I have my vehicles, home and life insurance through the same company (USAA), so they give a discount.
I have $900,000 on me, $100,000 on the wife and $10,000 on each of my three children. I pay about $55 a month for life insurance.