shifter
That sounds odd, usually if you connected a 3spd to a 4spd shifter it would work in every position but low(1). I would check the actual detent lever on the tranny, it might be hooked up wrong. Disconnect the cable and count the positions, should count 7 for O/D (P-R-N-OD-D-2-1) and 6 for 3spd.