You said, " I am 47 and have been with my husband since age 17. Have 3 kids and live for them." I see an I at the beginning of this statement, not a WE as in you and your husband. So I have to assume that he don't give a rip about your son and his issues with knocking up a girl and being broke and homeless. Let the little bastard fend for him self is what I could hear himself say.
DUDE, get out now it only goes down hill from here...
DUDE, get out now it only goes down hill from here...