Well, from our experience, 98% of the time it's in the rear control arm bushings. Even low mileage stockers are no match for the power we are making. It was too soft to begin with, and that was before they aged 15 years.
The lower CA's make more difference than the uppers, and the bushings make a lot more difference than boxing them or even new material (tubing). New control arms make the most difference because of the new poly bushings AND the new material that is stronger than even the boxed stockers. BUT, to really cure the problem & get the best performance, it needs to be addressed as a set/combo. Doing part of the job yeilds part of the results.
Basically, that means that boxed upper & lowers with new bushings all the way around is better than brand new lower CA's & leaving the uppers as-is.
For those that are not familiar with us, we make lazer cut boxing kits & custom replacement bushings that have a grease fitting built into them. We also make the strongest double adjustable uppers BAR NONE, and non-adj uppers and lowers new. We have a bushing tool as well to get the nasty bushings out of the top ears on the rearend housing. These are so tough to remove without our tool that many people leave the stockers in there. They never reap all the benefits of a complete system that way.
PS- The Poly motor mounts stop the exhaust from hitting when the motor torques over, but can't help when the rearend/tires shakes the **** out of everything.
Hope that helped.