update
Well, after an in-depth discussion with Kevin at KDK (great guy to deal with), we both concluded that everything doesn't look
too bad. Reasoning has it that the oil didn't look all milk-shaky, coolant looked fine/passed a pressure test, minimal material in the oil pan, pickup screen was actually very clean (surprisingly), oil filler neck checked out okay, etc. At this point, I think the bottom end is okay for the time being. I went ahead and just replaced the 3rd lower bearing, left well-enough alone and buttoned the bottom end up.
As it stands now, next I will cut the oil filter and check for any debris, slap on the new headers and turbo (I know the risk in doing so, but I say f**k it), change the coolant over to distilled water and pump lube, spin the motor over to verify I have oil pressure, and then start it up with fresh oil and filter. I'm going to fire it up and if everything seems okay at that point, I'll shut 'er down and do a compression test to see where I'm at.
It's still possible that I blew a head gasket, however, if I did, I caught it real early and didn't run the motor but for a easy 1/4 mile back to the house before I shut it down. If all goes well, hopefully I can just drain that oil, put another fresh filter on there and break in the new turbo.
Wish me luck! I acquired some headgaskets, intake gasket, etc. in case I have to tear back into it. Jeebus, I'm tired. This sucks doing all of this in the grass, on my back, with just hand tools and no workbench. Half of my time has been spent making sure everything stays clean.
My living room has a large 9 x 12 painters drop sheet with tools and parts scattered everywhere.