Its even easier. The alky kit is to suppress knock. Not fuel the car. You get fueling as a second effect, but not the reason to use it.
So if the system makes lets use even a smaller number 80 psi.. and there is no knock, you have enough alcohol.
If the duty cycle goes through the roof.. and you have no knock.. then you have a fuel delivery issue. Pump, injector, pressure, etc..
99% of the time its fuel pump not keeping up or injectors too small for the given engine.
If you get knock and the air fuel is gliding up.. then your out of gas.
Now if you start getting knock and the air fuel is stable.. then you need more alcohol.
3 bar on the kit is perfectly fine. Just that when you crank the controls up it ramps the pressure up sooner and then doesnt really add much more pressure past the lower 20's. Still back to issue one.. knock. No knock.. you have plenty.
I also wonder what power(voltage) is at your fuse box when the tests are being performed. Your battery may be at 11.9 but the box could be way lower if there are a lot of drops. So when you run the tester put a meter on the red wire where it gets power from the fuse box and see what voltage you have when the system is making 100+ psi pressure. If your fuse box is at 11.0 your pump would technically be at 10.6-10.8 as there is drop across 12ft of pump wire. This would then explain lower readings. Be surprised to see actual voltage across the red/black pump wires "at the pump"
When we test pumps on the bench its done using washer fluid and a variable power supply going up to 14v. The pump must make in excess of 250 psi on an M15 nozzle or it doesnt go out. You go to meth, that drops pressure 20%. You drop voltage and that will then drop pressure further. Voltage will drop across any length of wires. That is what it is.
Maybe need to make a Hot Wire relay kit for the pump right from the battery to give it that little extra OOMPH
