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Reaper

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Chicks Man......UPDATE!!!!!

alright when it comes to the ladies i am well.... shy!

i really never ever talk to women. and when i do i trip all over my tounge. at any rate. friday i finally grew a set and asked a girl for her number. she said yes. it suprized me.....

well now i have her number, when do i call her?



thanks
 
ROFL

NOW!!!!!!
Man...... do we HAVE to teach you everything?
Must we hold your hand?
Even to "drive" your car you must turn the key ... so... The rest speaks for itself.....;)

Bruce
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Originally posted by Grim Reaper
alright when it comes to the ladies i am well.... shy!

i really never ever talk to women. and when i do i trip all over my tounge. at any rate. friday i finally grew a set and asked a girl for her number. she said yes. it suprized me.....

well now i have her number, when do i call her? thanks

And you were engaged once................................???:confused:

To a nice girl also.:D even if she drove a Mustang!
 
Re: Re: Chicks Man......

Originally posted by Nick Micale
And you were engaged once................................???:confused:

To a nice girl also.:D even if she drove a Mustang!


Nick your smart ass remarks ............... its late you need to be in bed?


:D
 
Don't dip the stick if you can't afford the oil.
 
Depends on the conversation and the time of the week you got the number. Lets say you got the number on thursday, you have to wait a mandatory day before calling so you call on Sat. afternoon and see what her plans are for the rest of the weekend. If she is not free, thats fine tell her you have very exciteing plans also. Now once that is out of the way, you tell her you wnat to get together next week sometime, and ask her, "when is good for you?" She tell you, for example she is free thursday night, you say, "ok I'll call you Wed. to make some plans." This is all assuming she gave you a correct phone number to begin with. Also, be prepared to leave a message. Just say Hi, this is, so and so, just calling to see how your doing, give me a call when you get the chance and leave your number. Always have an atitude that its no big deal. Even if shes super hot!! If you have to leave a message and she doesnt call you back, then you wait a few more days call one more time and thats it. After that if she dosnt call you forget it.

Nick
 
have this down to a art dont ya? got any tips on how to handle disgruntaled overly protective military fathers?
 
Yep. Whats the situation and I'll tell you how to handle it.;) I'm a pro at relations, and how to get things done.;)
 
heres what i found, because once i was the same way.

dont try to be mr tough guy who empresses her, some girls like a guy to be mean to them half jokeingley all the time and that dosent make a good relationship.

in my case, i have found that i have a talent for being funny around girls and making them smile. this, combined with an easy going attatude was my formula to bag a good looking girl. personality can componsate for looks.

did i do it? well, the girl im with now is pretty smokin!

u just gotta find your groove. every one has one.

it kinda helped taking a look at my dad and studying how he flirts with waitresses and other women on the job :D ;)
 
Just be yourself!!! Don't play all those stupid games about rules, when to call, making her jealous and blah blah blah. Call when you're ready, just listen to what she has to say and if it clicks between you two, GREAT!!! If not, oh well, not to sound cliche, but there are other fish in the sea.


Cj
 
Originally posted by nickb
Depends on the conversation and the time of the week you got the number. Lets say you got the number on thursday, you have to wait a mandatory day before calling so you call on Sat. afternoon and see what her plans are for the rest of the weekend. If she is not free, thats fine tell her you have very exciteing plans also. Now once that is out of the way, you tell her you wnat to get together next week sometime, and ask her, "when is good for you?" She tell you, for example she is free thursday night, you say, "ok I'll call you Wed. to make some plans." This is all assuming she gave you a correct phone number to begin with. Also, be prepared to leave a message. Just say Hi, this is, so and so, just calling to see how your doing, give me a call when you get the chance and leave your number. Always have an atitude that its no big deal. Even if shes super hot!! If you have to leave a message and she doesnt call you back, then you wait a few more days call one more time and thats it. After that if she dosnt call you forget it.

Nick
Nick ,very well said.....Women just want to be wanted......
 
Equalizer,
That man demands respect. Hes gonna get it one way or another. So this is how you have to go about it. Show him that you respect him in conversation, but men like this usually test you. He's gonna say something, but trust me, he wont want you to agree with him. He's waiting for the moment where you step up to the plate and defend your opinion. Make sure you do this at the right time, more of a socail atmosphere, but always with respect when talking to him. Never degrade him, just let him know you can stand your own ground too, and your not a push over. More than anything he is going to want a man for his daughter that can at least protect her and take some of the burden off of him. Pick and choose your arguments, but argue with class. This guy is waiting for this moment, trust me. Chances are he will respect you more, and so will his duaghter if she sees your not afraid of her father. Be confident try and make your self comfortable, and curtious at all times around them. It should work out OK.

Nick
 
geez i just wanted advice on when to call her. there is an art to timing of the call. you dont want to call to soon, they think your stalking them you dont want to call to late then they think you dont care. its all in the timing and i dont have that. that is the hard part. from here its down hill.

maybe my rugged good looks and witty charm will win her over!

so i will call her later today. i will post what happen who knows i my even have pics.


Dathan
 
1) try to time the call before she goes out or is tired.

2) Have a specific date plan in mind and ask her out.

3) Don't get into a long phone call, make sure you listen to her
and ask questions about her. Don't talk about yourself (you
don't want to scare her off by revealing too much too soon)
save the important stuff for the date, hopefully after the date.

4) Good Luck, be confident and smile before you pick up the
phone.
 
i was thinking of just going in to her work with out pants on......

think that will work?
 
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