Co-Dependency Is A Family Disease
No amount of typing on a Buick messageboard will "fix" the situation.
So, since that situation is now beyond "un-doing", let's move into
the present and future, focusing on healing, learning, growing
and gaining the tools & knowledge to pull out of this catastrophe,
turn it into an opportunity, and
not do-it-again-and-again.
Have never seen any "one-thing" do more to help folks just like you
to help themselves (and others) than finding & attending the "Coda"
meetings in your hometown area.
Do it to reclaim a chance for a healthy life for yourself,
and if that's not enough motivation or inspiration,
do it to limit the effects of
CO-DEPENDENCY on your children.
CoDA World Fellowship welcomes you
If you can *make yourself* find the location & attend *one* meeting,
then there will be genuine cause for hope. You'll have to overcome all
your "why-nots" in order to attend the initial meeting.
All the rest will become much easier,
as positive change brings pleasant rewards. --- :smile: