BillyRValentine
Capricorn
- Joined
- Nov 4, 2005
Jim,
I too have no bad feelings about you. We have gone at it before and you felt strongly about your opinion and I did mine. That’s OK with me and when it was all over I didn’t think any less of you. We have been on opposite sides of an argument as well as the same side at times. The triple R stickers have to do with the three individuals the “R’s” represent and the attitude they have within their little circle. The other individual you mention there is a personal issue with. I can’t get into it on advice of legal counsel.
I have had and still do have issues with the way the Nats are run. I was willing to eat crow, swallow my pride, put my tail between my legs and attend the Nats this year. You know the story and I don’t want to get into it again but when I was disqualified for political reasons it became apparent that the triple R’s and their inner circle that run the Nats have even less interest in any type of reconciliation than I do. I made it public knowledge that I was going to go, that I would play nice and not start up anything and then I’m told I’m disqualified, not welcome and that the gates would be locked and we would not be let in. Put yourself in my shoes for a minute, if that happened to you, would you be willing to try and reconcile? You can put it on me and say I poked and provoked them for years but they poked too. Prior to the thread about me being disqualified, others and I had actually been pretty good regarding bashing. A little poke here and there but nothing compared to the way it has been. I personally toned it down for a few reasons. The first reasons was the respect I got working with john Chamberlain on the 25th anniversary T-Shirt. That was pretty cool and I made friends with John through the process. It was also becoming clear that nothing would change regardless of how much you say and I was just getting tired of it.
The whole deal with the DQ just fired me up again. I still think I’m being pretty good about it. I got into it pretty good for a few weeks with Jim Rogers but that’s over, I know where he stands as well as all the people behind the scenes he was penning for, it’s all good. I did not bash the Nats before or after the event. Do I have an opinion, yes, did I start any of it, no. If you notice, the people complaining and starting the various threads are not what you would coin as the usual suspects. In fact, I’d say the majority are people I don’t even know. The thread was moved over to TB.com where typically things are more pro-Nats than on other boards. Even here people who I don’t know are commenting negatively. Are you going to blame it on me? I doubt these people even know who I am. For me the DQ really cemented that things will never be better between the Nats and me. I think there was an opportunity to possibly have a truce but that went out the window with the DQ. Believe me, I would not ever suggest that having allowed me to race would have corrected things but I don’t think it could have hurt.
Art.
Art, I am going to PM you my number. Do me a favor and call me when you get a chance. Now onto the other stuff. The club has roughly 3800 members, of that we all are educated enough to realize that there are going to be some issues. As far as the boards go we also should know that there are some who play on both ends. I haven't posted over there recently because since Shane and Jay C. took over this board I feel more at home here again. I have drug some of the crud slinging that we do over there over to here and realized after looking at several other heated threads by other members than none of them had taken on the tone that my last one did, not at the mention of anyone else just my own insight. As such I too have had to take a step back. Does it mean that I feel any differently about what was going on; no. So I do understand exactly what you are saying about toning it down.
From what I have seen over the years every time someone decides that they want to open another venue without fail there are those that tirelessly promote their event through political mudslinging, it gets old. I would never say that you are mainly responsible for those issues but what I have seen is that there are some that take you at your word and when they see 8-10 others jump on the bandwagon they take it as the gospel. They don't always take into consideration that there are thousands of members on each board and that the ones that take issue with the GSCA are a minority but highly vocal none the less. I wonder if the same minority would take issue if I were to begin pointing out every flaw I could find or begin bashing them with or without reason.
I still would like to talk to you Art. I realize that bridges aren't always rebuilt in a day or two but maybe with a mediator we could make some progress and get you back to the Nats should you want to do so. Not so much to make ammends but to share in the good times and commradery that takes place there every year. You have to miss it some.
Jim C.