GNregistry
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- Apr 7, 2002
Been Ther done that, it is better to look in then out.
Women are like goals, find ones that match yours.
Then give them the 5 senses test. Plus 2 other tests.
1. Taste - gotta like the taste, whether it is kissing or whatever
2. Smell - simple, like just after a shower, not sweaty like Uncle Teddy
3. Sound - voice , including when angry, test your sound levels you can accept, really piss them off.
4. Touch - you just can't keep your hands off them.
5. Sight - you like to see them in daylight, with or without clothes
6. Goals - whether it is money, family, children, step-children, etc
7. Chemistry - you will sense it right away.
Pick 5 things you like about the person you are with, and use it everyday, everyday, not just to find a spouse to marry or date.
Always start back at the top as time and life changes, as goals and life do change. Even a job and meeting and getting along with relatives can be testing you. I had a girlfriend, and I hated to hear her sister just open her mouth, kinda like someone scratching their nails on a chalkboard, screeech, please just SHUT - UP.
RESPECT, TRUST, COMMUNICATION is the key to happiness and
long lasting friendship, regardless if a spouse or friend.
The problem I see is people use different rules when dating friends you can have sex with vs friends who are there as true friends, use the same principles, yet leave the emotion out of it.
My best - friend keeps picking up bar sluts and then wonders why he can't find the right one. She can't even pay for rent, which is subsidized through the Government for $50 per month. But she still smokes cigarettes and drinks with her sister daily. BUt can't afford rent of $50. She made a comment to him and he told me like he is proud -- that he is a keeper, well, he owns his own house and has $70k in equity, and house is worth $150k, has a job with vacation and benefits, boat, 4 wheelers, snowmobiles!
And she has 3 children that treat her like she is a child always going out partying and not staying at home.
See a pattern... can't teach or learn this in H.S. Be Smart, Learn quicker.
Come on, I may go to the bar for a few drinks, but I am not looking for a wife or girlfriend there.
Don't get me wrong, there are people who havea spouse from meeting at the bar, but it is summer and the fun is just around the corner.
ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION!!! nothing worse than meeting new friends or even one night stand and making it a lasting relationship because of children as the connection.
The reason people cheat ( or seek others) are for attention, for those qualities you and I seek, which are missing in a relationship. The only part is affairs don't have the real life test, money , and family and friends, included. That makes a big difference. If it is SEX, well, that is inherent -- why do think I have a female dog, because males always run off to get laid.
Oh yeah, alcohol, always screws with your mind and everything else.
Everything in life will Kill you -- sex, drugs, smoking, alcohol, women, men, stress.... but do it in moderation.
Jealousy is like salt, a little is good, but too much can kill you and leave a bad taste.
The reason people have the same problems over and over, is because they don't learn why it happened the first and second time. My sister has a friend (3 children 12, 16, 20 yrs old) whose daughter was pregnant at 16 yrs old and now the mother is pregnant at 42 yrs old, from a man she met after her divorce, who has nothing to do with her, because she had no protection or birth controland neither did he. He is about mid 30's, no children, no baggage, on top of the world, now he is a father to child from a one night stand with a friend and will forever be attached to each other. Plus she is not working, no insurance, no skills or abilities for employment and is 7 months pregnant. She is good at going out and having a good time and drinking, just not anymore.
Guys and girls beware, protect your self and family from others, there are people who will F@#$ up your life.
Touchy subject, but experience will help you get through it all and having the ability to adapt and change, yet accepting what you can change and cutting your losses when you know there are no alternatives remaining. Nothing worth having comes easily.
Brett
Women are like goals, find ones that match yours.
Then give them the 5 senses test. Plus 2 other tests.
1. Taste - gotta like the taste, whether it is kissing or whatever
2. Smell - simple, like just after a shower, not sweaty like Uncle Teddy
3. Sound - voice , including when angry, test your sound levels you can accept, really piss them off.
4. Touch - you just can't keep your hands off them.
5. Sight - you like to see them in daylight, with or without clothes
6. Goals - whether it is money, family, children, step-children, etc
7. Chemistry - you will sense it right away.
Pick 5 things you like about the person you are with, and use it everyday, everyday, not just to find a spouse to marry or date.
Always start back at the top as time and life changes, as goals and life do change. Even a job and meeting and getting along with relatives can be testing you. I had a girlfriend, and I hated to hear her sister just open her mouth, kinda like someone scratching their nails on a chalkboard, screeech, please just SHUT - UP.
RESPECT, TRUST, COMMUNICATION is the key to happiness and
long lasting friendship, regardless if a spouse or friend.
The problem I see is people use different rules when dating friends you can have sex with vs friends who are there as true friends, use the same principles, yet leave the emotion out of it.
My best - friend keeps picking up bar sluts and then wonders why he can't find the right one. She can't even pay for rent, which is subsidized through the Government for $50 per month. But she still smokes cigarettes and drinks with her sister daily. BUt can't afford rent of $50. She made a comment to him and he told me like he is proud -- that he is a keeper, well, he owns his own house and has $70k in equity, and house is worth $150k, has a job with vacation and benefits, boat, 4 wheelers, snowmobiles!
And she has 3 children that treat her like she is a child always going out partying and not staying at home.
See a pattern... can't teach or learn this in H.S. Be Smart, Learn quicker.
Come on, I may go to the bar for a few drinks, but I am not looking for a wife or girlfriend there.
Don't get me wrong, there are people who havea spouse from meeting at the bar, but it is summer and the fun is just around the corner.
ALWAYS WEAR PROTECTION!!! nothing worse than meeting new friends or even one night stand and making it a lasting relationship because of children as the connection.
The reason people cheat ( or seek others) are for attention, for those qualities you and I seek, which are missing in a relationship. The only part is affairs don't have the real life test, money , and family and friends, included. That makes a big difference. If it is SEX, well, that is inherent -- why do think I have a female dog, because males always run off to get laid.
Oh yeah, alcohol, always screws with your mind and everything else.
Everything in life will Kill you -- sex, drugs, smoking, alcohol, women, men, stress.... but do it in moderation.
Jealousy is like salt, a little is good, but too much can kill you and leave a bad taste.
The reason people have the same problems over and over, is because they don't learn why it happened the first and second time. My sister has a friend (3 children 12, 16, 20 yrs old) whose daughter was pregnant at 16 yrs old and now the mother is pregnant at 42 yrs old, from a man she met after her divorce, who has nothing to do with her, because she had no protection or birth controland neither did he. He is about mid 30's, no children, no baggage, on top of the world, now he is a father to child from a one night stand with a friend and will forever be attached to each other. Plus she is not working, no insurance, no skills or abilities for employment and is 7 months pregnant. She is good at going out and having a good time and drinking, just not anymore.
Guys and girls beware, protect your self and family from others, there are people who will F@#$ up your life.
Touchy subject, but experience will help you get through it all and having the ability to adapt and change, yet accepting what you can change and cutting your losses when you know there are no alternatives remaining. Nothing worth having comes easily.
Brett
Ya she is nice (optically speaking), but he lost his manhood with this retch. He turned into her puppet and has to ask permission to piss by himself. Not too mention she tried to hit on a couple of his friends too. 
