It aint' the T&Ds and it ain't the lifters...
I went through all of that trying to get rid of the Mark ITXB noise. Went through 2 or 3 sets of different manufacturers lifters, changed to roller rockers to adjust preload, etc.
It's frustrating to have a car that runs really strong (no doubt, it's a good running cam), but is noisier than hell around town. I feel your pain.
It is the cam. Look at KB's advertisement: "most lift per degree of duration of any cam..." That means nasty ramp speeds, and my guess is that's what causes the noise.
Lifters, rockers, whatever. You'll just waste time and energy. If you want a quieter cam, you're going to have to change it out. Sorry for the bad news...