I am still using the stock hard line coming off the fuel pump for my feed it is plenty big for my fuel requirements......I can not really answer to good for yours because you are running E-85 but I would think it's fine. Now on my return I mentioned I have a -4 coming directly out of my regulator and running -4 ss all the way to the tank.....now going back into the stock return on the pump there is a restriction........I have to use a bulk head A/N fitting and drill a hole in my tank to accomplish this.
As far as your push rod question I did not set lash because I am using stock rockers so there is no adjustment there. I installed my rocker bar and rotaded the engine to where the intake/exhaust valve (depending on which one you are hecking) is shut and I am past overlap. At this point your lifter is compressed and you take your measurement.......you will change your preload by lengthing or shortening your pushrod tool. Once you get your preload where you want you remove your pushrod tool and measure it......then that is the length pushrod you buy
I know it sounds a little confusing but once you have the pushrod tool in your hand and you begin the process it will make sense real quick.