Chris, I had the same issue and after a CLOSE inspection while on jackstand and with the motor running here is what I found.
I had sealed everthing exept the threads for the studs. When a nut is torqued the tension seals the threads on the pressure side but creates a gap on the back side of the thread. This gap allows for oil to migrate down the stud thru the block, girdle, oil pan gasket and finaly the nut. Then form a drop on the stud.
The above is the fix. I pulled the oil pan AND girdle with the motor in the car (yes it was a pain) and resealed the entire thing including coating each stud.
I have not had a single drop from the girdle since.
I have come to swear by Right Stuff by permatex. That stuff just works. Not knocking any of the other products out there but it has worked on anything that I needed to seal and not have to worry about a leak.
Hope this helps. Jon Hanson