I FINALLY got my gauge to show oiI pressure!!!!!!! I worked for another couple hours at it and all of a sudden I was giving up and i got it to work Here's what happened......the 1st thing is I gravity fed the oil pump thru the cooler lines about 1.5 quarts. I learned my lesson so, I hung a funnel with a piece of wire from my hood and ran a long tube to my cooler lines...that gave my arms a break so I could do something else while it was slowly draining. Then, I decided to remove the priming tool and use a screwdriver. The feel with the screwdriver was a little different than the priming tool when it was spinning it (drill removed of course. , rotating primer tool by hand) so I noticed that the primer tool must have not been engaging with the oil pimp shaft. I noticed that the grey round piece of aluminum that keeps the shaft centered in the hole was hitting a little piece of the cam shaft gear that was stopping the priming tool from going further down to make contact with the oil pump shaft. I then removed the dowel pins from the tool and removed that round piece, rotated the tool CCW with drill and it began to suck oil from the funnel, YEAH!!!!!
But now I switched to the CW rotation, and I was getting NOTHING, I tried , and tried, and tried, and tried. I didn't have anyone to help, so I set up my video camera and would just play the video back. I kept it up for another 1hr or so then I threw in the towel. I was picking up and I said....let me just put the cam sensor shaft back in and let the car do it for me (what could it hurt, right......) with the orange ECM wire disconnected, I started to spin the engine over , After about 20 secs, I saw the gauge wiggle. Then EUREKA!!!!!!! The pressure started to rise slowly and it rose all the way to 41-42 psi. FINALLY! I did this 2 or 3 more times, and the pressure rose the same way every time. So I think I am good now.
A just have a couple more questions (as if I haven't asked enough already

):
1. When spinning the engine over with the key (orange wire disconnected), the oil pressure takes 15-20secs before anything shows up on the gauge. Is this normal / ok? Also, the pressure builds slowly, takes about 1min for it to reach 40psi. Is this normal /ok? (I never took the time to notice it in all the time that I had the gauge,when the car was running) I am not sure that once the car is actually running, if the oil pressure will appear on the gauge faster and instantly.....
2. I know I still need to set 25*ATDC........ But , When I put the cam sensor shaft back in to spin the engine, I didn't clock it how the instructions state to (the cam sensor shaft). I dropped it in, just to see if it would prime. Does the shaft itself (with the window) need to be installed in a specific orientation (like the instructions) state? I am asking if I need to pull the cam sensor shaft out again (fight with it

)and try to clock it. Then of course I need to set the cam sensor at 25*ADTC