Those symptoms strongly suggest that you have a significant vacuum leak somewhere. Cranking open the throttle plate may have allowed the car to idle decently and mask the problem. Do a search on the site for 'vacuum' or 'vacuum leak' and start reading. You'll find numerous strategies to find it. I know you're new here so don't get discouraged. There's alot more help here than me. They'll chime in soon. Keep posting your work and results. We'll get it straightened out. Like I said, your numbers are pretty good... it's likely an obvious problem. Start out checking ALL your vac. lines. They get hard/brittle over time and leak. Replace them as you find the hard ones. Cheap and easy. Let us know what you find.
Oh yea.... COPY THIS THREAD AND REPOST AS A NEW THREAD OVER IN THE 'GENERAL TECH' SECTION OF THE SITE!... that's where you'll get alot more response. This is kind of a little 'niche' area of the site...
edit - maybe send a PM to SGRIM (site owner) asking him to MOVE this thread over to the other section. I'm sure he will if you ask...