Pronto
Believe nothing you hear and half of what you see.
- Joined
- Dec 9, 2002
My son is a senior and made Varsity soccer this year. He has played soccer for 10 years, been a starter for a division I travel team for 7 years. He had been passed up 2 years for Varsity and made it this year. Last night was the first game of the season. He was not picked to be a starter and worse, he and one other Senior didn't play one minute of the double overtime tie. My son is devastated. My wife and I watched him sink lower and lower as the game went on. This "coach" is also a guidence councelor and has been the soccer coach for 27 years. The soccer community has tried for years to get a qualified coach in the high school but for some stupid reason they give the job to someone that works at the school. All the other HSs in the area have excellent coaches that are travel coaches in the spring. So what do I do? I'm afraid if I talk to the goon he'll bench my son for the year or I'll blow up and hit him. My bosses son had the same experience with football at the HS. He quit. I really don't want my son to quit but this is not good for his ego. A kid on his travel team was benched on another HS team last year and he needed therapy to deal with the depression. These coaches don't give a crap how they destroy a kids confidence and sense of who they are. Its not like this HS has some super winning tradition either with his coaching. Well, at least he doesn't have to see him for 3 days. It's going to be a long season....I hope this SOB dies a long painful death.