Prep for the pipe..
IMO, it's better to slowly and carefully grind on the back of the bung to match it to the curve of the DP, rather than to "flat spot" the DP. Shouldn't take more than a few minutes with a die grinder to get a reasonably good match, and it will allow a good weld, without disrupting the flow. You can drill the hole either before or after the bung is on, but if it's a threaded bung, before might be better.