I've had the opposite experience. The engineers at Buick went from a steel shim gasket in 84-85 to the composite in 86-87 for a reason.
Then why doesnt top fuel use them? Ive run steel shim and copper gaskets well over 600hp with great success. Not so with the stocker. Ive ran 124+ mph a few times and had zero KR and still had failure in some instances. The engineers went to that gasket because it was better for the given application. It seals coolant better, and is more reliable over time for the hp GM intended it for. Steel shims have been known to rot out and leak in service over time. The graphite gasket was used in all 3.8 v-6's from 86 up. Even non turbocharged applications. GM never intended our engines to be anywhere near what they are today. I cant think of one car that has run more than 10 passes over 130 mph with stock gaskets and iron heads unassisted by o-rings and or pinning the heads. Even then its not worth the hassle with the gaskets available today. There are simply not enough bolts to clamp the stock gasket in these applications and the compression will burn out the gasket on the intake side and cause failure in that area from head/deck deflection under the pressures its seeing. I agree with using the stock gasket as long as the car wont go over 120mph in the quarter and it must never see detonation at all. Keep in mind, we cant simulate the procedure GM used for tourqeing the fasteners. A multi-tooled spindle that cranked them down all at once. Impossible for us to do at this time. Apparently they are working for you but that is not the majority at the hp levels we are pushing.