I still can't get over my ex-g/f
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Sleeping around isnt the answer... ghonisyphaherpelaids comes to mind not to mention you dont really "fix" anything that way.
Take a break from dating altogether. What would it say about you to use someone else in order to forget this chick? Certainly nothing to brag about to your next girlfriend. You would just end up comparing them to "her" in the first place.
Waaaay too young to even be worrying about it. No rule that says you cant be single!
Shawn
Take a break from dating altogether. What would it say about you to use someone else in order to forget this chick? Certainly nothing to brag about to your next girlfriend. You would just end up comparing them to "her" in the first place.
Waaaay too young to even be worrying about it. No rule that says you cant be single!
Shawn
i have officially cut off contact with her (on my side anyways) i am not emailing her or calling her...i started this today...let's see how long it takes her to realize what i am doing and then she will come crawling back...you watch...i will keep you posted
Chris Cornett
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Good choice. Let me give you another bit of advice. When you are ready to get back into the swing of things again try finding a woman a little older than you. Sometimes it is the best thing that can happen. When I was your age, about 8 years ago, I was so sick and tired of young immature girls. An older independant woman is the best thing in the world.
Do a term paper on "Co-Dependency" for a class.
Start tomorrow with reading a copy of "Co-Dependent No More"
The above will make clear to you the true source of the pain you described. And YES, I DARE YOU TO DO THIS FOR Y-O-U, NOW!!
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Let this be the LAST TIME you feel as you do now...EVER!
"Relationships" like this have ruined many, many lives, careers, studies, families, children, etcetera.
Start tomorrow with reading a copy of "Co-Dependent No More"
The above will make clear to you the true source of the pain you described. And YES, I DARE YOU TO DO THIS FOR Y-O-U, NOW!!
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Let this be the LAST TIME you feel as you do now...EVER!
"Relationships" like this have ruined many, many lives, careers, studies, families, children, etcetera.
There is wayyyy too much poon out there to be strapped to one broad anyways. The car needs more attention anyways (trust me, it needs more! They all do!).
Just do not go and do big smokey burnouts in her driveway at 3 in the morning. They love that!!
Just do not go and do big smokey burnouts in her driveway at 3 in the morning. They love that!!
Seriously,
Being single is a blast so go out and enjoy it! If you're having problems then it's not worth it. Focus on being happy, forget your ex, and enjoy yourself whether it be alone or with someone new. We've all stayed in relationships because we're scared of being single but it ALWAYS works out for the better so don't stress over some chick that you don't get along with.
Being single is a blast so go out and enjoy it! If you're having problems then it's not worth it. Focus on being happy, forget your ex, and enjoy yourself whether it be alone or with someone new. We've all stayed in relationships because we're scared of being single but it ALWAYS works out for the better so don't stress over some chick that you don't get along with.
Originally posted by Grim Reaper
this coming from the kid that humps a flashlight every night.
It's better (and safer) than nailing some fat hairy chick with a man tattoo on her forearm. That chick was even too ugly to screw on your bed....the best you could do was sneak into the bathroom where you had easy access to the shower to wash the crabs off but hey, at least that one was legal Putting things in your perspective, I think I'll stick to masturbation Gary Wells
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Originally posted by Don:
"i have officially cut off contact with her (on my side anyways) i am not emailing her or calling her...i started this today...let's see how long it takes her to realize what i am doing and then she will come crawling back...you watch...i will keep you posted"
Put her on "E-mail block" yet?
Sounds like you want her to come back.
You think that her coming back will mend everything. It won't.
Here's the good news: she will eventully return to the nest.
Here's the bad news: She will be there only long enough to make you think that she has changed. You will be sucking up to her all over again before you realize what is happening.
Then she is going to split, and you will be broken hearted all over again. That doesn't sound like much progress on your part between how you felt when she left the first time and how you will feel when she leaves the second time.
Yes, please let us know when she returns, everythings great, and when she splits again, and you are feeling the same as you felt when you first opened up this thread. (Dejected & rejected).
Good luck
"i have officially cut off contact with her (on my side anyways) i am not emailing her or calling her...i started this today...let's see how long it takes her to realize what i am doing and then she will come crawling back...you watch...i will keep you posted"
Put her on "E-mail block" yet?
Sounds like you want her to come back.
You think that her coming back will mend everything. It won't.
Here's the good news: she will eventully return to the nest.
Here's the bad news: She will be there only long enough to make you think that she has changed. You will be sucking up to her all over again before you realize what is happening.
Then she is going to split, and you will be broken hearted all over again. That doesn't sound like much progress on your part between how you felt when she left the first time and how you will feel when she leaves the second time.
Yes, please let us know when she returns, everythings great, and when she splits again, and you are feeling the same as you felt when you first opened up this thread. (Dejected & rejected).
Good luck
IMO what she did was a capital offense in the relationship game. Take her back and you will always wonder who or what she is doing. When you do meet the person you want to marry, be sure and tell her about this girls game and that you cut it off ASAP. Hopfully your future girlfriend will know upfront that you don't play games like that. Sometimes you have to be a man of your word no matter how bad it may hurt. Goodluck and time heals all.
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move on man, it aint EZ but once u get another chick youll be much happier. Just dont get caught up in the whole relationship game AGAIN, you got out of early...your LUCKY...theres too much pu$$y out there and your too young to be tied down. I'm the same age(20) and I'm in 2 yr(and counting) relationship, i wouldnt give it up for the world but I also wouldnt mind being single sometimes ya know....too many chicks out there. At times I feel stuck in my relationship but we're so good together I'd never want to lose it. Its a catch 22 really. I side tracked a little but dice the bitch and move on....
ever try to put it in perspective?
lets say your ex-gf is your GN. You spent the last 1.5yrs w/ her(GN) and you gave it everything you had. You poured all your money into it and spent all your free time w/ it. You even got to meet its family(fellow GN drivers) and they took you in like thier own, they even still ask about you. Now lets say one day out of the blue the GN tells you, "Hey I found another driver, I been seeing him for a little now even while you were driving me. I know you made me who I am and are anything I could ever ask for, but your old news, I need a new driver who will drive me harder than you and maybe crash me, who knows?" Then while the GN is with this new owner it still keeps contact w/ you by driving by your house and revving at you, almost like its teasing you, rubbing it in that it found someone new while your still car-less. You even get the occassional email letter(50ft burnout down your street) Now after all that if the GN came crawling back to you would you take it back? No you would go find a faster, cleaner, lower mileage GN to replace it. And if you did take it back it would be only to beat the **** out of it and run it into the ground or to part the bitch out. Get what I'm saying. So find a new girl, nail your old girl if she come crawlin back then kick her out for good. She is now OLD NEWS! g'luk man!
ever try to put it in perspective?
lets say your ex-gf is your GN. You spent the last 1.5yrs w/ her(GN) and you gave it everything you had. You poured all your money into it and spent all your free time w/ it. You even got to meet its family(fellow GN drivers) and they took you in like thier own, they even still ask about you. Now lets say one day out of the blue the GN tells you, "Hey I found another driver, I been seeing him for a little now even while you were driving me. I know you made me who I am and are anything I could ever ask for, but your old news, I need a new driver who will drive me harder than you and maybe crash me, who knows?" Then while the GN is with this new owner it still keeps contact w/ you by driving by your house and revving at you, almost like its teasing you, rubbing it in that it found someone new while your still car-less. You even get the occassional email letter(50ft burnout down your street) Now after all that if the GN came crawling back to you would you take it back? No you would go find a faster, cleaner, lower mileage GN to replace it. And if you did take it back it would be only to beat the **** out of it and run it into the ground or to part the bitch out. Get what I'm saying. So find a new girl, nail your old girl if she come crawlin back then kick her out for good. She is now OLD NEWS! g'luk man!
Geese, guys. He's not going to dump her. It would be way too hard even if there's the slightest glimmer of hope with her. Bud, you're in WAY too deep. I've been there before. Can't eat. Can't sleep. Heart hurts so bad you can't hardly stand it. You just feel sick. You'd take her back in a heartbeat! Nothing but time will heel it. Also, she's only 18. Give her a break! She doesn't know what she wants in life yet even if she thinks she does. You treated her WAY too good by the sounds of it. They don't respect that for long. You have to treat her bad sometimes too! It keeps the mystery of the relationship in her mind. Don't go on about how bad you are hurting. It doesn't work and actually has the opposite effect for some reason. Give her some attention but also let her know you have other interests too. Even if you can't get interested in anyone or anything else don't let her know it! It will ruin the chances of her coming back. If she doesn't come back she wasn't yours. In my case, she didn't come back and only time healed me. After a few months I started asking girls out again and I eventually forgot her. Then one day I saw her getting gas at a convienience store. She didn't look NEARLY as good as I remembered her to be! And all that pain I went through for her! I was genuinely glad I did not end up marrying her and thanked God for other women! Believe me, there's LOTS of others out there.
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This rich guy had a plane, he crashed it and lived, had a great offshore boat, it sunk, and his wife, whom he loved dearly left for another man. He said he learned a great lesson from all this though: if it flies, floats or f**ks, it's cheaper to just rent it. ha ha ha. Just the wisdom of an old rich guy (not me by the way) Mark
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I say let her experiment going out with others guys.
In her comparison she may noticed that you had been better
to her that the current guy or guys she is dating.
Thus this may lead her back into you arms.
As for you keep an open mind. & just try dating occasionally
to see how things are out there for yourself.
In her comparison she may noticed that you had been better
to her that the current guy or guys she is dating.
Thus this may lead her back into you arms.
As for you keep an open mind. & just try dating occasionally
to see how things are out there for yourself.
I have found that the best thing you can do is cut all lines of communication with her. Don't call her, email her, or anything. If she wants to contact you, let her do it on her own. In the mean time, try and move on. I have found that the best way to move on is to find someone else. You will forget all about her. And if she ever finally does contact you, you'll be happy with the new girl and won't give a sh*t anyway!
