i think Bob was wondering about the back side of the diaphram, where the rod slips through the canister... how does it seal?
it depends on the wastegate, but some of the ones ive cut open actually have 2 diaphrams inside... and thers one on top of the other. so the top port is connected to the chamber sealed off by the first diaphram and the second port is connected to the chamber created between the 1st diaphram and the second diaphram. so there is no seal per-say in that type of waste gate, it just passes through the bottom end of the canister like a regular wastegate.
the other type actually have a PC style of seal on the rod like a valve stem.
hope that helps.