Ok, heres the long story: My best friend married this horrible bitch of a woman, and she cheated on him twice. His self esteem is so low he stays with her, that and they now have a child together. This weekend they are having a big Halloween party, and this crazy chick invites one of the guys she cheated on him with! I say if this guy shows, he needs an ass whooping. Ultimately, shes at fault, but my comments on her have fallen on deaf ears. I am really mad about this, and to me it is a big slap in the face for him to show up at my buddies house. Since my friend apparently lost his manhood, I really feel the need to take a chunk out of this guy for him. Am I wrong? I realize its not my problem, but I am just so angry I need to do something.
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Bescurred
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I'd prolly get the dude drunk then piss him off and get him to make the first move. I'd see even if your friend that has been cheated on would mess with this guy, just let him know you got his back. I'd tell the fawker hes not allowed in the house.
I just can't believe my friends going to let this guy in. I know my buddy won't start anything with this guy, he's just not like that. Its funny, because my buddy could probably stomp a new one in this guy in his sleep, but he is just too passive. I feel like I need to step in. I might just pull him aside and tell him to leave. The ballsiest thing is this guys wife doesn't know he cheated on her! So they are going to go to a party hosted by the woman he cheated with! What a dumbass! I think maybe his wife should find out, know what I mean?
I'm not supposed to know about this whole thing, so I might just be a royal prick to the guy, see if he will take the bait. I would never start the fight, but I will gladly finish it. This dudes like my brother, and this whole mess is really pissing me off. His wife needs a good backhand too. I saw her hit him one time so hard I felt it! I do not think hitting a woman is right, matter of fact its dead wrong, but when shes 250+ lbs. and throws a mean punch, she needs a little in return. I just really hate this bitch. She gets jealous when he even mentions one of his ex's, like in passing, but she once sat and talked about how she did like 3 guys at once (in front of him) and seemed to think its OK. Who wants to think about their wife with 3 guys? One way or another, I gotta do something.......
I'm not supposed to know about this whole thing, so I might just be a royal prick to the guy, see if he will take the bait. I would never start the fight, but I will gladly finish it. This dudes like my brother, and this whole mess is really pissing me off. His wife needs a good backhand too. I saw her hit him one time so hard I felt it! I do not think hitting a woman is right, matter of fact its dead wrong, but when shes 250+ lbs. and throws a mean punch, she needs a little in return. I just really hate this bitch. She gets jealous when he even mentions one of his ex's, like in passing, but she once sat and talked about how she did like 3 guys at once (in front of him) and seemed to think its OK. Who wants to think about their wife with 3 guys? One way or another, I gotta do something.......I would talk to your friend and tell him about the situation. But as far as getting into a confrontation with that idiot, I would pass. It may create more problems for your friend than it solves, and he has low self esteem as it is, I’m sure if he finds out what it’s all about later he will have even less self esteem! It can also affect your friendship. For all it’s worth, talk to your friend and let him fix it! Just have his back! I hope this helps, GNflyby. 
what i'd do
I wouldnt fight this Ahole unless he starts something with you or your friend. fighting=cops, so dont start anything! I would ask him politely to leave and if he refused, I'd tell his wife, that might seem like youre starting something but youre in the green as long as you dont hit first or use provocative language. just be ready to stomp some a$$. Just remember that if you do that youre going to upset your buddy's life in a big way...more than likely for the best. Who the F would cheat with a 250# woman?? WTF?? thinking about what you wrote, it's obvious that your friends wife has no respect for him or for their marrige(sp?) so you can only help this poor guy by breaking the ice. i hope i made some sense
I wouldnt fight this Ahole unless he starts something with you or your friend. fighting=cops, so dont start anything! I would ask him politely to leave and if he refused, I'd tell his wife, that might seem like youre starting something but youre in the green as long as you dont hit first or use provocative language. just be ready to stomp some a$$. Just remember that if you do that youre going to upset your buddy's life in a big way...more than likely for the best. Who the F would cheat with a 250# woman?? WTF?? thinking about what you wrote, it's obvious that your friends wife has no respect for him or for their marrige(sp?) so you can only help this poor guy by breaking the ice. i hope i made some sense
dude i know you buddy's married to hear and they now have a kid together but why is he with her? you could always see your kids, You are right for sticking up for him, if your bud is in bad shape thats what friends are for, It's like i once told my girl " these are my friends, my friends were here before you, and they be my friends after your gone, so leave my friends alone." Don't start something in front of her meet him outside and tell him, " You focker, have no business being here, just cause my bud is a passive guy, that don't mean i ain't willing to beat the **** out of ya, NOW TURN THE FOCK AROUND! help your buddy snap out of this, take him out let him meet some other girls your bud is in need of you now i help a friend leave his cheatin a$$ wife of 14yrs and he had 3 girls, i had a long talk with him and showed him that she has no right to treat you or to do these things to ya.
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2 things you can do to help your friend:
1) DO NOT, under ANY circumstances, start ANYTHING with anyone at the party. Unless you have actual photos of the wife and the guy doing each other, you'll get told you're fulla $#it, don't know what you're talking about, you're an idiot, yada yada (don't ask how I know this) --and even if you DO have proof, you'll still regret it...
2) Find your friend a girlfriend. Seriously. He's not going to believe there's another fish in the sea unless one bites him on the a$$
1) DO NOT, under ANY circumstances, start ANYTHING with anyone at the party. Unless you have actual photos of the wife and the guy doing each other, you'll get told you're fulla $#it, don't know what you're talking about, you're an idiot, yada yada (don't ask how I know this
) --and even if you DO have proof, you'll still regret it...2) Find your friend a girlfriend. Seriously. He's not going to believe there's another fish in the sea unless one bites him on the a$$
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Just invite his ex's to the party, it's only a halloween party right.
Steve
Steve
Go down to the local K-Mart,Target ...
and get your self a ski mask or two ,and when the pary is over --Blam...then get back into your costume and go about your business....Trick is to be his friend for the night.....
Sam ,but I think if you dont at least say somthing ,,you will always kick your self in the but later
and get your self a ski mask or two ,and when the pary is over --Blam...then get back into your costume and go about your business....Trick is to be his friend for the night.....
Sam ,but I think if you dont at least say somthing ,,you will always kick your self in the but later
Rent a Tape, and take the night off.
It's his life, no matter how good of friend he may be you can't live his life for him. Friends can do the dumbiest things, drink, smoke, the list goes on and on, but it is their life. The most you can do, IMO, is once in a while drop a hint, and leave it at that. Sometimes even for the best of friends, all you can do is be there when they finally wake up. Of course if he's a really good friend you'll help him bury the body--- just kidding
In my opinion I would not even show up to the party. Maybe your friend values your friendship more than his wifes and will say something. If not then maybe he shouldnt be your friend. If he doesnt stand up for himself he sure wont stand up for you when u are down.
Ive been in this position before.
Just remember a couple of well placed punches can kill someone. Its not worth it.
Louie
Ive been in this position before.
Just remember a couple of well placed punches can kill someone. Its not worth it.
Louie
RobsIron
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Its tough caring for someone who won't stand up for themselves after being so blatantly wronged.
Stompin' some Azz definately can make you feel better, but you have to be smart about it especially when children are involved.
What sucks is that she has the Power and knows it. The Courts are on her side. What you need is proof. Help your buddy hire a P.I. and Videotape her on her nights out. Once you have indisputable proof the situation will change in his favor.
You can go to the party with a smile...be friendly and stay sober. You now have a Mission. Do not tell anyone. Be Smart and look forward to the results.
Stompin' some Azz definately can make you feel better, but you have to be smart about it especially when children are involved.
What sucks is that she has the Power and knows it. The Courts are on her side. What you need is proof. Help your buddy hire a P.I. and Videotape her on her nights out. Once you have indisputable proof the situation will change in his favor.
You can go to the party with a smile...be friendly and stay sober. You now have a Mission. Do not tell anyone. Be Smart and look forward to the results.
Don't need proof. She did it, told everyone, and confessed to him too. She's done it twice now, the first time was at her bachelorette party. Stupid whore. I've decided not to start anything, but if this guy gives me the smallest excuse to "remove him from the premises" I'm going to. I found out last night she doesn't even work with this guy anymore! She basically invited him because they messed around together! Man that is messed up. My buddy really needs to put this bitch in her place. I know if he did, she might have some respect for him for a change. She hates me because my woman actually cares about me and likes me to be happy. She's always telling my g/f not to "let me" do stuff, like buy car parts, cars, etc. I really feel like my best friend has been kidnapped and held hostage, he is so miserable. I just can't get him to do something about it. Its frustrating.
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I think your setting yourself up for a BIG fall !!! You already have it in your mind to tune this guy up. Do your self, your buddy, and the said whore a favor and STAY OUT OF THEIR BUISNESS !!! Some people don't mind living in misery. Apparently your bud is one of them. Things can go very wrong in the worst kind of way, that was totally unexpected. Don't go to that party because if you do, you will find any little nit picking thing about the guy, cause a confrontation, that might make you LOOK like the bad guy. If you have to do this guy.......do it before the party date, without witnesses, on your own turf. It might make you feel better, but it wont solve your buds problem. Cause and effect is what it all boils down to. So be very careful !!
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The Ho tellin' everyone is not Proof. When it gets down to her taking half and child support in a Divorce...... Atty's and the Courtroom.....Videotape is your best friend.
