Torque convertor bolts will usually rattle all the time, but I did check them. It has always engaged properly, with no force and with proper gap between flexplate and conv. Buick Beginner, thanks, hopefully it never gets to that point, but I don't worry bout that stuff too much cuz my grandpas a lawyer, so if it did get ugly, I'd do ok. I'm still so mad I don't know what to do. The builder gave me his clearances, and they sound right. AAAAAAAHHHHHH!!!!