I guess you're wedded to your hobby/work. Thats not a bad place to be in, enjoy it to its finality, plus helping others is commendable. This puts you squarely in the realm of socializm-helping others help themselves-hey!!
The United (joined together in one) States of America.
Your charm is still there-mostly, and your personality speaks for itself.
Don't lose sight of your friends or foes, after all, we are to the very end-United.