Ttype6, if you need to borrow a modded ecm for low imp injectors.. let me know. I have one I can lend you. I cant help with a spare MAF.
But I bet anything you put on a stock MAF, Tweak chip, and stock ECM.. your problems will vanish faster than I can type this.
I have run the ME-r in my own car and had fantastic results. It did take more than a few chip revisions to get it right.. Steve was always more than helpful.. it also helped I had my own chip burner and Steve would email me the .bin files so I could burn my own. So I understand what it takes to make the ME-r work with alky.. its not for the novice. Dont take this the wrong way.
A lot of our cars will run fantastic at 10:1 air fuel.. but you throw alcohol in.. it drops to 8.5:1.. and thats where the problem begins.. as the motor chokes trying to get the fuel out.. then boom.. goes the head gasket. And your gaskets were pushed not burned through.. I bet this too.