Having a Bad Day? Yeah, Life Sucks!

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Life sucks sometimes.

I have a lot of crap going on right now that is very stressful.

I don't think I take any more of this crappy weather and the only thing I'm looking forward to is going to the track.

I'm keeping my fingers crossed it don't rain Saturday.

 

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[forcedfedv6]

Holyyy Sh** dude , was this Satan's Xgirlfriend you dated or what?, what a freaking nightmare, this is the reason why I am 38 yrs old single and no kids, not that I haven't had the opportunity because there has been many, but i rather be alone than with bad company, I feel your pain.. at least my Buick doesn't talk back to me and pops me in the mouth when i give her gas, instead she replies with great screeching tire ripping power. and this puts a :biggrin: on my face.

I always believe in the saying that goes.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free, hence why marry just to say this is my wife, it will cost you in the long run, 80% of my friends who I have seen get marry end up in divorce 3 yrs later if not earlier and the women are the ones who initiate it, and this is a fact not just something I made up.

LOL too bad i read it before you deleted it, im a fast reader..

 

[2 QK 4 U]

Holyyy Sh** dude , was this Satan's Xgirlfriend you dated or what?, what a freaking nightmare, this is the reason why I am 38 yrs old single and no kids, not that I haven't had the opportunity because there has been many, but i rather be alone than with bad company, I feel your pain.. at least my Buick doesn't talk back to me and pops me in the mouth when i give her gas, instead she replies with great screeching tire ripping power. and this puts a :biggrin: on my face.

I always believe in the saying that goes.

Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free, hence why marry just to say this is my wife, it will cost you in the long run, 80% of my friends who I have seen get marry end up in divorce 3 yrs later if not earlier and the women are the ones who initiate it, and this is a fact not just something I made up.

LOL too bad i read it before you deleted it, im a fast reader..

thanks.
sorry I deleted everything. I thought that nobody would really care.

 

[LV GN]

i know this is a tuff time but stick with it! i went to court and got both of my kids 15 yrs. ago. best thing i ever did. their mom has very little to do with them. she's mixed up with drugs and a real mess and my kids are doing great! after the storm dies down you will be very happy to be bringing him up and help him thru life. keep your chin up my boy!!!

 

[2 QK 4 U]

i know this is a tuff time but stick with it! i went to court and got both of my kids 15 yrs. ago. best thing i ever did. their mom has very little to do with them. she's mixed up with drugs and a real mess and my kids are doing great! after the storm dies down you will be very happy to be bringing him up and help him thru life. keep your chin up my boy!!!

Thanks Len

 

[SouthernCal GN]

thanks.
sorry I deleted everything. I thought that nobody would really care.

Wrong, brother- you have a lot who care.

I read it before you hit the delete bomb......better to vent in this way than to do something stupid. I went thru something like this (only without the off the wall psychosis part) and like you, I ended up with full custody of my son. He's now 18 and a geat kid- and his mom's a certified wackjob (US Navy said she was!)

Keep stuff like her SSN, info on her family and friends, pics of her, etc., in a file in case she ever tries to grab the boy and take off.....Make sure you have cut off ALL loose ends that may tie you together.

Glad that you have the boy, and that he's gonna learn all about being with his dad.

 

[2 QK 4 U]

Hey guys thanks.

But there is more. Here is the basic outline.

met psycho woman
she was married 3 times
I had child with her (he's 2 1/2 now)
I heard that she killed her previous husband, i ignored it.
She turns out to be an alcoholic
fought with her all of the time.
she moved to florida and took the child
she gave him back to me 3wks later
i filed for temp custody
had a hearing, she was a no show. I was granted.
she hooks up with a new guy with money
he enables her to get an attorney
had another hearing, i got full custody and she got visitation
during all of this I find an 8mm tape in her stuff she left behind.
i watched the tape.
it contained the night that her husband died.
this tape has her husband totally messed up and on a bed, can't move, heart beating fast, all he can do is grunt. and she's there saying that she was sorry for what she did and
that it was all her fault. and clearly denying this guy medical attention.
he was overdosing on cocaine, meth, and "somebody" injected him with a massive dose of insulin. he went into a coma for a week and then died.

 

[SouthernCal GN]

That tape should go to the authorities.

 

[2 QK 4 U]

this tape is 120 minutes long.

the whole time she is confessing to be at fault for his condition.

and someone came into the room and said "oh damn, gotta call 911"

she says "no! don't call"

this tape clearly puts her at fault for at least negligent homicide you would think.

I turned the tape over to investigators in the city that the crime occured in.

They called me and said that there was no definitive evidence that could link her to actually being responsible for his death.

This is an outrage! I can't believe this crap, it's like she is untouchable.

the cops wouldnt take her to jail when she busted my mouth open, the magistrate let her take my boy away for 3 weeks. 1,000 miles away. knowing her history and I can't do anything about it.

 

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Plus, I'm $4,500 in the hole in legal fees....and I just got another bill yesterday for $2,700

 

[LV GN]

tell your lawyer about it and do what he tells you. get your son back and move on. watch your back. you will have to do what the courts tell you but keep track of everything. including all bills and police reports. if she does anything, make a report. you need to look like the good guy at all times. dont fight with her. if there is problems, tell her to contact your lawyer as you dont want to fight. a few times of having to go back and forth and she will get sick of it and things will die down.

 

[2 QK 4 U]

Len, i hope that's what happens.

I told my lawyer about everything that is going on. He said he can't do anything with it until an arrest has been made and charges pressed.

I'm not done with the tape yet.

The victims father who I've been in contact with he is a retired detective. I'm sending a copy of the tape to him. See if he can do anything more with it.

this woman is the type that only thinks about herself. I hear stories about how some women can't have children for whatever medical reason and would probably be good moms and here you have trash like this that only wants to party and get high all the time and turn around and tell everybody she's a perfect person.

 

[LV GN]

if there is anymore court dates. ask your lawyer to request drug screening.

 

[chrisgarrett]

Be strong. You can get through it. I went through a really nasty divorce. My only concern was my two sons, ages 5 and 6. I spent $58,000. in legal fees to retain custody of my sons. She saw them two days per week. Now they are grown up and finishing engineering at Purdue and one in medical school. I look back on it now as a very bad time in my life. It was really tough raising those boys alone. Today, I'm single, and very happy because I'm in control of my life.
It has been my experience that maybe 1 in 100 marriages is good. I would never think of marrying again.

 

[racerex1]

My cousin had a similar problem. He shot his wife 2 times in the liver with a 45 auto and took his own life at 30 years old a little over a month ago. No matter how bad it gets it is never worth that. He is gone and everyone is grieving his death and he accomplished nothing. She lived and he is gone. Now there is a daughter that has no dad. I don't know if his parents and the family will ever get over this. She was the same way "never did anything wrong" You will get through this...it will just take time and money. I wish my cousin would have vented. Maybe I could have helped. He kept all the pain and hurt inside until he snapped.

 

[2 QK 4 U]

My life has been stressed out living with her.

Now that she is gone, that stress is gone. but has been replaced with stress from all this legal crap and not being able to be with my boy.

I just can't seem to get things right.

someone told me that I should not stear away from realizing what type of person I am, so I got to thinking.
How many women out there would like to have a guy like me that's not a drunk, has a very good job, loves his child, doesnt cheat, fixes all the vehicles, has a supporting family, I can go on and on about me but when I look at her all I see is a drunk.

This is her idea of "having a good time" she came home roughly 3 am and headed straight to the toilet. keep in mind she drove home herself.
I was in bed for the night had to work the next day.
when i showed this picture to her the next day she said, why would you take a picture of me when I had the flu? I said, why were you dressed like a punk rocker when you had the flu? That conversation quickly led to a big fight. it's sickening to see her deny everything about who she really is. Does anyone out there know someone like this?