TURBOPOWERED68
David
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He was having trouble going (#2) and was feeling discomfort
So he goes to the doctor they check him out and immediately schedule a biopsy and it came back positive.:frown:
he is scheduled for the operation the 30th of this month.
he is a good guy and young at that very early 50 something years old.
its been about a week and half since he got this news and he is already making arrangements, he already lost some weight and his spirits are way down.
i offered to help with what ever i can and so has most of the family.
I don't want to treat him like he is going to go but id like to let him know i am there for him. i just don't know where to start or what to say to him.
i was with him a few days ago and i was trying to act as if/and telling him "Dude what are you worried about, this is BS you get the operation then its back to fishing and working"
Anyway sorry to dump this on you guys but i am trying not to talk about it much with my wife as she is a worry-er
So he goes to the doctor they check him out and immediately schedule a biopsy and it came back positive.:frown:
he is scheduled for the operation the 30th of this month.
he is a good guy and young at that very early 50 something years old.
its been about a week and half since he got this news and he is already making arrangements, he already lost some weight and his spirits are way down.
i offered to help with what ever i can and so has most of the family.
I don't want to treat him like he is going to go but id like to let him know i am there for him. i just don't know where to start or what to say to him.
i was with him a few days ago and i was trying to act as if/and telling him "Dude what are you worried about, this is BS you get the operation then its back to fishing and working"
Anyway sorry to dump this on you guys but i am trying not to talk about it much with my wife as she is a worry-er