Update:
So I sold my other project and that freed up some money to shop around for stuff that I don't need but I want (lol), amongst those I swapped the stock shifter for a B&M ratchet, got some RJC pulleys (from another member on the board), Installed a Tial Q50 BOV and waiting to install a V60 Tial waste gate on a 2.25 crossover pipe I'll fab up with a screamer pipe, still debating on a boost controller (top of the list right now is eBoost2 due to the shape and features).
I also ended up going with a TE45a with a Q-trim .85 housing (had a TE45a with a Garret .63 P-trim couldn't pass it up at $500 fresh from another member that got it from bison and this turbo is great when I launch with the 2 step (which I just finally finished mounting on the pedal) but other wise is about 800-1000 rpm slower in spool, which helped with drivability but sucks when trying to do a roll, it did pick up a lot on the top end.
So I started asking around the diesel shops around here to have another compressor wheel installed on my old TE45a with the trim .63 housing, to have it rebuilt and the whole assembly with the new wheel balanced so far the average price is $380-420 plus the price of the wheel and no tax (the shops are in DE lol). I also just scored a TE44 cheap so I may have that rebuilt and try out a smaller turbo on Brian's recommendation.
I am also looking into swapping my seats with the pro car rallies but I first want to try and dye them to match the stocker so at a glance they look somewhat alike and if the result is satisfactory I'll pull the trigger on that.
Lastly I wanted to let you guys know how pleased I am with Autometer, I had sent a gauge to them for a repair (some the LEDs on the read out failed), I figured that at 3 years old the gauge was out of warranty so I filled out the repair form and sent it in, to my surprise, within the same week I received a brand new gauge in the mail from them. Just another reason to buy USA.
I'll keep posting back to let you guys know how it goes. Here are some pics: