Here's an update. I went to two transmission shops this morning and luckily both were staffed by nice knowledgeable people. You never know what you are going to get. I rarely ever have to go to shops, but transmissions are an exception. The first shop put a computer on the car and we drove it around for a while. It was elongating the 1-2 shift every time and staying in 2 at a stop. Upon acceleration, it would shift from 2-1 and then elongate the 1-2 shift. The car set no codes at all, which surprised the tech because he thought it would set the code for long shift. He said it could be two things. They could clean up and inspect the valve body for $125, but if there isn't a problem with it, I am likely looking at a rebuild as new at $2000. He didn't think the vb would be the culprit because a plugged vb would usually set a solenoid code.
At shop #2, the guy put the car on a scanner and we drove again. Of course, the same symptoms showed up. He was also surprised that no codes were being set since he felt it should at least pop a P1811 or similar. He felt like it was mechanical in nature and without seeing the internals, he would guess it could be fixed with the clutch piston (as mentioned by a member above) for $800 or a complete rebuild/warranty for $1500.
I guess I am probably going to have to go with a rebuild at shop #2 or possibly just get one from TripleEdge depending on shipping charges. There really isn't anything else I can do. Since most of the job is labor to r/r, it doesn't make sense to just replace the piston and hope everything else holds up with 107k on it. It just troubles me that
no codes are being set but I have no idea if that matters in this case.
Just when we were getting ready to trade this car in.

Even in excellent condition, this car only has a $4000 trade in value, so now I'd be cut down to only getting $2k out of it after all is said and done.
Interestingly enough, both shops said they see this trans a lot and they start to act up around 90k. I can drive the car just fine if I manually shift it.